Why Ice Breakers?
When the group meets it is important to establish a relationship... after all, that is the aim of the group meeting. People are coming in cold, some perhaps for the very first time. We are asking them to bare their souls to each other and to be real with God and with one another. A group that is well-established, where people know each other well can go quite quickly to the deep stuff, but for other groups, their needs to be a transition stage which allows people to establish that they can trust the group through some fairly innocuous questions.
An ice-breaker is a question, or series of questions, or an activity, that allows people to share something about themselves which is non-threatening, or which they are easily encouraged to talk about.
The aim is to get people talking about themselves, with the rest of the group listening, so that they are more easily able to share their dreams, needs, questions etc.
In a group that is newly established, the first meeting may consist just of the ice-breaker so that people can get to know each other, and lay a good foundation for the group.
When choosing your ice-breaker try to make sure that they relate in some way to the theme of the night. That way the ice- breaker is seen as part of the process, and not just standing out on its own.
A good ice-breaker is one that reveals something about the people, but not anything too deep or threatening. It can be simple ("What is something good that happened last week?") or more creative ("What was a place that you liked to go for holidays when you were little?"). Think about the sorts of things people might talk about at work... these are usually safe topic areas. You can make almost any question safe by placing it in the distant past. But be careful if you have a wide range of ages present in the group as what is distant for some is present for others!
Inspiration!
It's not always easy to be creative, especially when you are under pressure. We have borrowed this list of 104 ice-breakers from the U.S. cell church site. www.cell-church.org I recommend that you visit this site often, it has a great range of articles and ideas for all cell leaders.
1. What was the happiest moment of your life?
2. Tell us about your first date?
3. What is the greatest regret of your life?
4. The hardest thing I have ever done...
5. The greatest compliment I ever received.
6. Let me tell you about my best earthly friend...
7. What room in your house do you like best?
8. What is the one thing you want to accomplish next week?
9. Where did you feel warmest and safest as a child?
10. If you had a time machine that would work only once, what point in the future or in history would you visit?
11. When was the last time you did something for the first time?
12. Which of the following restrictions could you best tolerate:
leaving the country permanently, or never leaving the state in which you now live?
13. At a meal, your friends start belittling a common friend. What do you do?
14. If you could take a pill that would enable you to live until you reach 1000 years, would you do it? Why?
15. When you do something stupid, how much does it bother you to have other people notice it and laugh?
16. Would you like to know the exact date of your death?
17. If you could change two things about the way you were raised, what would they be? If you came from a divorced family, how did it affect you?
18. Who is your favourite relative? Why?
19. What is your favourite memory time spent, as a child, with your father? Your mother?
20. Who did God use to bring you to the point where you knew you needed Jesus?
21. If you could change places with a Bible character, who would you choose? Why?
22. What is your favourite book of the Bible? Why?
23. If you could go anywhere in the world, where would you go?
24. What is your favourite movie or TV show?
25. Who has had the greatest influence on your life since we last gathered?
26. What was the best thing that happened to you this past week?
27. Recall a time when you failed recently
28. Name someone you admire who had to overcome great obstacles to get where they are now.
29. What do you value most in a human relationship? In your relationship with Christ? Your parents?
30. How do you react when you aren't thanked for going out of your way for someone?
31. What is your favourite time of day?
32. Singles: The girl/boy I want to marry.
Couples: What caused me to marry my spouse.
33. My greatest disappointment...
34. The gift I will never forget (apart from my conversion)...
35. What was the most important event in your life this past week?
36. If you could chose to go anywhere in the world for 3 days, where would you go, and why?
37. If you could chose to meet anyone who ever lived in America, who would that be, and why would you like to meet him/her?
38. If you could choose to live anywhere in the world, where would you live, and why?
39. What gift (spiritual, emotional, mental, etc.) do you believe you are bringing to this meeting? (In other words, what do you think you are bringing that will- or may contribute to the encouragement of others- or the building-up of the "church"?)
40. Describe a significant experience in your life that changed your value system completely.
41. What are some of your goals for the year ahead?
42. Who are your parents, what did they do and what would you like to change about them?
43. If I could choose my career over again I would ...
44. What is your position in your family - first second etc.
What would you have liked to swap about this position?
45. If you became the leader of any country in the world, which would it be and why?
46. Share the best and worst experience of your week
47. If you could take a free 2 week trip to any place in the world where would it be and why?
48. If you could talk to any one person now living, who would it be and why?
49. Give every one a piece of paper and ask them to draw a picture of their jobs or whatever they do on a daily basis. Explain your sketches.
50. Ask each person to say why they are glad to be a cell group tonight.
51. Briefly describe some strong and some weak points in your relationship with your eldest child or your parents-in-law or your husband.
52. Inform everyone that they have just been given $1000 000. Let each share how they would use their newly gained fortune.
53. Do you have a nickname and if so what is it?
What nicknames do you have for your husband and
children?
54. Is there an era in time that you would have liked to have lived in, if so, why?
55. Has the cell group been a help to you? Spend time talking about it and thanking each other.
56. Tell the cell group 3 things you appreciate about your family and 3 ways in which you find them difficult at times.
57. What is the best thing that has ever happened in my family? ...my cell group? ...the world?
58. One thing I would really like see happen at the moment in my family? ... my church? ... my cell group? ... the world?
59. Who is the best friend you have at this point in your life?
60. Have you had an answered prayer recently - share the story
61. What is your occupation? What do you enjoy about it?
62. Who has been the greatest influence on your Christian life and why?
63. What book, movie, video have you seen/read and why would you recommend it?
64. What do you think delights God above everything else in your life?
65. What is the most encouraging thing said to you this week?
66. What encouraging action have you done to someone this week?
67. What made you decide to attend this church.
68. What made you decide to live in ...<insert your city>?
69. What do you still want to accomplish with your life?
70. What is your most embarrassing experience?
71. For what are you thankful?
72. What is the most memorable event of your life and why?
73. Share the most meaningful scripture to you and why is it so
meaningful?
74. How did you and your partner meet and what made to start going out together or what kind of person would you like to have as your partner?
75. How would your life be different if you knew Jesus was returning on 24/5/2000
76. Who is the most interesting person you have met?
77. Talk about your favourite holiday spot and why you enjoy it there?
78. Share about a spiritual experience you have had...
79. What annoys you about your spouse/friend?
80. Have you ever experienced healing in your body - share
81. How do you relax?
82. What is your favourite type of music / song etc.?
83. What has happened to you during this week which you would like to tell the rest of the group.
84. The last time I got really angry was .............
85. If you could not fail, what would you like to do?
86. If you had to live your life over what would you change?
87. What do you want written on your tombstone?
88. What do you want said at your funeral?
89. What don't you want said at your funeral?
90. If you were to go and live on the moon and could carry only one thing, what would it be?
91. What would you do if you were to see ...
- a person being robbed
- a person drowning
- a house on fire
92. One thing which has stressed me out this week .....
93. One thing which makes me feel guilty ........
94. One thing which I do not understand about the opposite sex is .......
95. If you had this week / ... over again what would you do differently?
96. Describe another small group that you were a member of outside of your church, and tell us why you thought the group worked (or didn't work). You're not limited to "religious" groups (most of us meet in small groups at work).
97. What is the most memorable Bible you have received (i.e. from Baptism, wedding, conversion, etc.)? Tell us about why it's meaningful to you.
98. What is the first thing that comes to mind when you think about God?
99. What are the biggest questions that you have about your relationship with God?
100. Under what circumstances do you feel most lonely? Least lonely? Why?
101. In what areas of your life is it most difficult to trust God?
Other people? Yourself?
102. Why do you get up in the morning? The purpose is to find out what the motivating forces are in this person's life. It is a simple question, but, it takes a good deal of thought to answer honestly.
103. When was the last time you admitted you were wrong? Why is it so hard to do?
104. What have you learned recently from another believer?
Recent Cell Agendas
November 6, 2002
This week: “The Good News”
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How has God been with you this week?
Apart from the Gospel, what is the best news you ever heard? How did it make you feel?
Read Acts 10:27-48. In v. 36, the NIV describes the message as “the good news of peace.” Why is the gospel “good news”?
Peter recounts Jesus' life and death in 37-41. If you were sharing with a friend, what would you say about Jesus' life, death and resurrection?
What is important about the fact that God raised Jesus from the dead?
Why is v.42 “bad news”? Do you think people need to hear bad news about God before they can appreciate good news?
How would you explain to someone what it means to “have faith in Jesus” (v. 43)
It's one thing to share the good news in Caesarea in AD 40, but quite another thing in Narrabri in 2002. If Peter was talking to Bill the plumber or Fred the farmer, do you think he'd take the same approach, or would he talk about different things?
Vision
Spend some time praying for your friends tonight.
October 25, 2002
Sometimes people can make the most interesting subject seem deadly boring. Others have the knack of being able to make what seems boring to be alive, vital and exciting. This week we are looking at the question of how we can communicate the Good News in an interesting way.
This week: “Creative Communication”
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Who was the most boring teacher you ever had at school? Who was the most interesting? What made the difference?
Psychologists tell us that we are all motivated by different things. For example, some people think in terms of pictures, some people have to be able to touch things, others think logically and others have to be moving. Some people learn best in group activities, others alone. What motivates you to learn something new?
Jesus used pictures and stories to communicate the gospel. What pictures or objects can you think of which he used to describe the Kingdom of God? What stories did He tell? (Brainstorm... you should come up with at least 20)
Not all of the pictures or stories which Jesus used make sense in our world. What objects might you use to describe what following Jesus is like? Don't just say “a toaster”- you need to say why the kingdom of God is like a toaster.
What stories or events that people are familiar with today could you use to show people what God is like?
Imagine your group has an unlimited budget to produce a 30 second TV commercial to persuade people to become Christians. What should be in the commercial? How would you film it?
Vision
Spend some time praying for your friends tonight.
October 18, 2002
We are continuing to think about what it means to share the Good News with our friends. Sometimes we can wrongly assume that people are not interested in the Good News. We make judgments based on superficial factors such as their behaviour instead of asking why they do those things.
This week: “Getting People Interested”
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What kind off people make you fell like they would never be interested in spiritual issues?
Read John 4:4-30. The Samaritan woman comes at midday to draw water. Why would she come at the hottest time of the day? (vs. 6-7)
What reasons would have made Jesus think this woman would not want to know about the Good News?
Why does Jesus start by asking her for a favour? Do you think it's sometimes good to let unbelievers meet our needs instead of us doing the giving?
How does Jesus use the object of water to move the conversation deeper? What are some examples of everyday objects,ideas, events etc. that we can use to make people think about God?
How does the woman's “thirst” show itself in her immoral past? How do the non-christians you know show their thirst for spiritual truth? How can you show them the way the gospel meets their needs without being judgmental?
Vision
Spend some time praying for your friends tonight.
October 11, 2002
This week: “Seeking The Lost”
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Before you came to faith in Jesus, how would you describe your attitude to God?
Read Luke 19:1-10. What was Zacchaeus like before he met Jesus?
Why was Zacchaeus so eager to see Jesus?
What did people think about tax collectors generally? How do you think the crowd felt when Jesus went to Zacchaeus' place? Why did Jesus do this?
What did Zacchaeus' do that showed that he had really repented?
People don't wear signs saying, “I'm desperate for God.” What sorts of things might they do or say which might say they are ready to hear about Jesus?
Zacchaeus had been seeking Jesus, but verse 10 suggests that Jesus had come looking for Zacchaeus. How can it help to know that the Lord is actively seeking your friends?
Vision
Spend some time praying for your friends tonight.
October 4, 2002
Reluctant Evangelists”
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What difference has knowing Jesus made to your life in the last month? Have their been specific instances where you know God has made a difference?
What are some of the reasons why you don't evangelise more of the people around you?
Read Luke 5:1-11. Describe the scene in vs. 1-2 in as much detail as you can. Try to really enter into the picture. What are the sights, sounds, smells?
What was Peter doing when Jesus made his request? How do you think he felt about Jesus interrupting him like this? Do you find that what you have to get done interrupts what God wants done, especially evangelism?
Why is Peter reluctant to fulfill Jesus' second request (v. 4)? Have you ever experienced a situation in which God asked you to do something that seemed pointless or stupid?
If you were Peter, how would you feel about being called to be a full-time evangelist?
In what ways do you feel inadequate or unqualified for evangelism?
In Matthew and Mark's versions of the story, Jesus tells Peter and Andrew: “Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.” Do you think that this explains the qualifications needed to be an evangelist? What does “following Jesus” mean for you tonight?
Vision
Most people feel reluctant to witness. But God can plant such a deep love in our hearts for Him and for our friends that we can't keep it to ourselves. Pray for one another for God to overcome your reluctance.
September 27, 2002
This week: “Why spread the Good News?” This is the start of a series on evangelism.
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What sort of things do you talk to your friends about?
What are some reasons that people have for sharing the gospel?
Read Luke 15:1-2, 11-32. Why did Jesus tell this story?
How would the people listening to this story react to the boy's job?
What types of people do you find difficult to love?
In this story, Jesus presses all the Pharisees' buttons about what is right and wrong. How would they have expected the father to respond?
This story tells us that when a sinner repents God is so excited he throws a party. How does this line up with your understanding of God's attitude to you?
Do you think that if we really appreciate God's love for us then we will want to reach others who have turned away from God? So what stops us?
How do you think we can encourage ourselves and each other to appreciate God's love for us and for others?
Vision
Evangelism in its pure form is motivated by God's love for us and for our friends. Pray for the people you know, that God would give you a greater love for them.
Out of this chapter, which part is most challenging to you?
From tonight's passage, what are some things you need to change in your life? Pray for one another to be able to deal with these issues.
Next Friday night is the Youth Disco, ably run by SCG. We will need all our groups to be present to help with the organisation and running of the night. Please pray for this event, and invite any young people you know who might be interested.
August 16, 2002
Out of this section from James, what do you need to do differently to honour God?
Pray for each other for healing of the tongues!
We need to always uphold before each other the mission of our groups that is to draw new people into fellowship. Spend some time talking about how your group can be more intentional in this. Our next outreach night will be on August 30th so think about the people you are trying to reach and how you can be effective in this.
July 19, 2002
What has really stood out to you from tonight's study? What things need to change in your life? Pray for one another.
Next week is another out reach night. Talk amongst the group about what your group will do for this night.
July 12, 2002
Tonight's Theme: Practical Living 2
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What challenges have you faced in walking with God this week? Do you find that challenges come mainly from inside you (e.g. temptation, doubt) or from outside (peer pressure, persecution, demonic attack)?
Read James 1:12-27. What is is that makes us sin? (vs. 12-15) What does James say is a good thing to remember when we are facing temptation. Why is this helpful?
What are some of the good and perfect gifts that come from the “Father of Lights”? What sort of things do NOT come from God?
How easy do you find it to obey God's word? Why does James compare people who don't obey His Word to people who look in a mirror and then forget what they look like?
What are some of the deeds which make your faith pure and spotless? What would be the equivalent today to the examples James gives in v.27?
Vision
Again we are starting to think about reaching out from our groups to share the Good News with others. Since we are talking about faith and deeds, maybe your group could think about someone they could do something practical for in a couple of weeks time.
Tonight's Theme: Practical Living 1.
Tonight we start a series on Practical Christianity based on the letter of James. I hope it helps people to work through attitudes and actions and to work out how to live for Jesus in Australia in 2002.
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In the last week or so, have you had to make difficult decisions in which following Jesus was not easy? How did you resolve the difficulty?
Read James 1:1-11. What sorts of “troubles” or “trials” do we face as christians today? How do these events test and mature our faith?
How do you handle doubts? What kind of things do you have doubts about? How does God help you get over these doubts? Is there a particular “cure” that will fix all doubts, do you think?
Who are the “poor” in Narrabri? Who are the “rich”? In which category do you fit?
Do you share James' ideas about rich people?
What issues that have been raised tonight do you find challenging ?
Vision
Pray for one another to faithfully live out the gospel in the week ahead.
Tonight's Theme: God@Work 3: Mission at Work
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Have there been opportunities at work this week to talk to people about Jesus?
Do you normally find it easy to talk to work colleagues about faith issues? Why (or why not)?
Do you see yourself on a "mission from God" when you go to work? Is this a helpful idea?
Read 2 Timothy 2:1-13. Paul uses analogies from 3 different types of work to describe Christian ministry. What do these jobs teach about ministry?
If you see your job in terms of your ministry or mission, how would you expect God to help you?
What special needs are there at your work place in terms of people needing Jesus?
Vision
Next week we will once again be having an outreach night. It might be a good idea to think of people from your work who might be interested in coming. What are their interests? How can this group plan a night which might interest them and encourage them to come?
June 14, 2002
Tonight's Theme: God@Work 2: Serving at Work
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How has God helped you in your work this past week?
If you could use a colour to describe your attitude to your work what colour would you choose?
Read Colossians 3:22-25. What does this passage say about our attitudes to work?
Do you find it easy to serve your boss with your whole heart? Why?
How does verse 24 influence what your attitude should be?
What challenges are you facing at work? How can this group help? Pray for one another.
Vision
Think of the people you work with. What are their dreams, plans and ambitions? How can Jesus be a part of their lives? Try to imagine what they would be like as born again people. Ask Jesus to come into their lives and make them the people He wants them to be.
Tonight's Theme: God@Work 1: Created to work
Over the next few weeks we are going to look at the connection between faith and work. Work doesn't mean just “paid” employment but includes things like work at home, parenting, voluntary work, school or other education, and of course 9 to 5.
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What was the most boring experience in your life? What made it boring?
What do you think of when you think of work?
Read Genesis 2:1-15. In verse 2. it says that God had finished his work. Why do you think the Bible talks of creation this way? Have you ever thought of God working before?
Why does this passage say that God created Adam?
Do you think that we are made for work? Does this make any difference to your thoughts about your work?
What was Adam's work? How does Adam's work relate to your work?
In the Reformation period (late 1500's) Christian leaders often talked about work as vocation or calling. Is it possible to see your work as God's calling on your life? What difference would this idea make to you on Monday morning?
Vision
As Christians we are here to share the Good News about Jesus with people who don't know Him. For many of us, the place where we most often see non-christians is at work. Who are the people at your work who you could share the Good News with? Spend some time praying for them tonight.
May 24, 2002
Tonight's Theme: Growing in Faith- Serving Others
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1.If you could fly to any place in the world for two weeks' holiday, where would you go? Why?
2. What do the words "servant" and "slave" mean to you?
3.Who are people that you don't mind serving? Who are people that make you cringe at the thought of serving?
4.Read Luke 22:24-29. What do people normally think is the relationship between ruling and serving? How does Jesus turn this around?
5.In what ways did Jesus come as a servant?
6.In what ways should we follow His example?
7.Do you think that it works in real life that you get to be a leader by serving people first?
8.This discussion topic is called "Growing in Faith- Serving Others." How does serving others grow your faith?
9. Think about those people whom you don't like to serve. What is God saying you need to do for those people?
10.How can this group help you become more of a servant?
Vision
Next week we will be having our outreach night again. Spend some time talking about next week's activity. Importantly, pray for those whom you will invite.
May 17, 2002
Tonight's Theme: Growing in Faith- Hearing God
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1. What was the most memorable message or communication you received from another person?
2. What is your preferred means of communication? Why?
3. Have you ever heard God speak to you? How does/ did this happen?
4. Read Isaiah 6:1-13. How would you describe Isaiah's experience?
5. What was God's message to Isaiah?
6. Read 1 Kings 19:9-13. What was Elijah's experience of the Lord here?
7. Spend some time journalling. This is a way of learning to hear God's voice. Simply write out a prayer and then underneath it write what you sense God is saying in response to that prayer.
8. Pray for one another to better hear God's voice.
Vision
In two weeks' time we have scheduled another outreach time. Please, please, please try and get something together that you can invite friends to. Who are your friends? What are their interests? What can your group do to meet these people in a way that is inviting to them?
May 10, 2002
Tonight's theme: Growing In Faith- The Word
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1. What is your favourite part of the Bible? (Could be a whole book or just one verse). Why is this meaningful to you?
2. How do you feel when other people tell you you should read the bible?
3. Read Psalm 119:97-112. What does this teach us about God?s word?
4. In what ways is God?s word like a ?lamp that gives light wherever I walk? for you?
5. This passage talks about three ways we can relate to God?s Word:
v. 102 talks about the bible as a teacher-- what sort of things does the Bible teach us about which are useful for daily living?
6. It is important to obey God?s word and not just read it. What are some points where you find it difficult to do what God wants you to do? Why is it hard to do?
Vision
One of the things the Bible teaches us is that we have to share the Good News with our friends. What are some ways we can do that as individuals and as a group?
May 3, 2002
Tonight's Theme: Growing In Faith: Prayer
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1. What does the word “prayer” mean to you?
2. How often do you pray? Every minute? Once a day? Only on Sunday? Only in emergencies?
3. Read Matthew 6:5-15. What is Jesus trying to teach us about prayer here?
4. If God knows what we need before we ask (v. 8), why should we pray?
5. Why do you think Jesus prefers people to pray privately rather than publicly?
6. Have a look at Jesus’ model for praying. What strikes you as being important here?
7. What is the biggest issue you have with prayer? How can this group help you?
Vision
Prayers for people to come to know Jesus are the sort God likes to answer. Spend some time praying for specific friends and family members to be saved. Also ask God to show you who you could share your testimony with or invite to come to your group.
April 19, 2002
Tonight's Theme: How To Share Your Faith
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1. How do you feel when you hear the words evangelism or evangelist? Why do you feel that way?
2. What things happened to make you become a Christian?
3. Read John 9:1-33. What happened to the man when he met Jesus?
4. What did the man tell the Pharisees about?
5. When you do what this man did it’s called sharing your faith, or giving a testimony. Have you ever told a friend or someone else about your faith in Jesus? Why or why not?
6. On a piece of paper write out your testimony. It should be less than an A4 page. Here are three questions to help you plan it:
What sort of person were you before you met Jesus?
How and why did you become a Christian?
What does Jesus mean to you now?
7. Encourage people to write this out now... it doesn’t have to be a polished work of literature. Remember the man’s testimony: “I was blind but now I see!” It should be finished tonight otherwise it will get forgotten.
Vision
We have written out our testimony. Who will you share it with in the next 7 days?
Next week is ANZAC Day. Your group should have been planning an outreach event, or project for that day. What are you going to be doing?
Pray about both the personal faith sharing and outreach project.
April 12, 2002
Tonight's Theme: Water Baptism
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1. What is your favourite water activity? Why?
2. What does the word baptism mean to you?
3. Ask those who have been baptised to share about their experience
4. Read Acts 2:36-42; 8:26-40. What strikes you about these passages?
5. Being saved involves 4 steps:
Repent (Turn away from sin)
Believe that Jesus is Lord and Saviour
Baptism in water
Receive the Holy Spirit
These can be remembered by the word RuBBeR
6. What do you think baptism in water is meant to represent? (Two main things should come out here: dying to our old nature and cleansing from sin).
7. Why do you think God thinks baptism is important?
8. Pray with anyone who might be thinking about wanting to be baptised. You should point out that it isn’t something that you rush into. Our policy on baptism is that potential candidates must attend a baptism class and also be approved by the Leadership Team.
Vision
As a church we will be attending the Youth Week event on Sunday. Pray for this outreach. Also mention that the groups will be planning to do some outreach around ANZAC day. What will your group be planning to do?
April 5, 2002
Tonight's Theme: Motivational Gifts Of The Holy Spirit.
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What was the best thing that happened in your life since we last met?
How have you experienced God lately?
Recall that last time we talked about gifts of the Holy Spirit (1 Cor. 12:7-11)
Tonight we are going to talk about another list of spiritual gifts... these are called motivational gifts because they are what motivate us to do things. Read Rom. 12:4-8. Briefly explain each of the gifts, and how they work.
Read the "Pavlova Story" as an illustration of the way these gifts work. (Copies will be available on the night) Ask each person how they would react in the situation... our reactions in these situations show what our motivational gifts are.
Note Paul's point in the passage that no gifts are better than others-- we need everybody's gifts to make the church effective in its ministry.
Pray for each person to grow in their motivational gifts and in the ministries that flow from them.
Vision
Who are the non-christians we are praying for? How can we develop relationships with them? How will this group plan our next outreach meeting to meet with these people?
March 15
Tonight's Theme: Gifts Of The Holy Spirit.
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What was the most valuable gift you ever received? (no spiritual answers, yet!)
In what areas of life would you describe yourself as "gifted"?
Read 1 Corinthians 12:1-11. What do you understand by the phrase "spiritual gifts"? Where do they come from?
What does Paul describe as spiritual gifts here (vs. 5-10)? The right answer is word of wisdom, word of knowledge, faith, healing, miracles, prophecy, discernment of spirits, tongues, interpretation of tongues. You may need to explain what these things are and how they work. Use your own experiences to explain them.
What do you think these gifts are for? Why would God give them to us?
Have you experienced any of these gifts in practice?
The Bible indicates that all Christians should be capable of allowing all of these gifts to be used as needed. Pray for one another to become more fluent in these gifts and for opportunities to use them to God's glory.
Vision
Next week our groups will be meeting individually for their outreach night. Who will your group invite? Where will you meet and what will you do?
March 8, 2002
Tonight's Theme: Baptism In The Holy Spirit.
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(Note: this session is more instructive than most, but it is important to ensure that there is still lots of space for discussion, sharing and prayer.)
Read Acts 2:1-12. What do you understand by the term Holy Spirit?
What is your "gut reaction" to this passage of Scripture?
If you read the rest of the story, you discover that Peter is totally transformed by this experience of the Holy Spirit. What does that tell you about the Holy Spirit?
This experience is often called the "baptism in the Holy Spirit" or the "filling of the Holy Spirit". What do these terms mean to you?
Ask members of the group if they have been baptised in the Spirit. Of those who answer "yes", ask them to share what happened and how they know they were baptised in the Spirit. What changes did this make in their life? It might be a good idea to share your own experiences first, if people are a little reticent.
Pray for those who would like to be baptised in the Holy Spirit.
Vision
The outreach night is just two weeks away. Spend a little time firming up your plans and praying for those you will invite.
March 1, 2002
Tonight's Theme: How Do You Know You Are Saved?
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What are some things that you know are true but don't actually seem right at first? (e.g. the earth is spinning rapidly and actually goes around the sun, not the other way around; heavy objects do not necessarily fall faster than light objects). Can you think of other examples?
When you are trying to make a decision do you go be what feels right or what you think is right?
Read Romans 5:6-11. What is it that makes us acceptable to God? Is there anything that can change this?
When you feel down, what do you do to feel better? Does it work?
Is God changed by our feelings? Is our relationship to God changed by our feelings?
How much does God love you? (See v.8-10)
When you are tempted to believe that God does not love you, what can you tell yourself that might change your mind?
There is an old illustration of this truth. If you can imagine an old steam train with an engine, a caboose (coal wagon) and a carriage, then:
The engine is the facts: Jesus died on the cross
The caboose is our faith-- it's the fuel that activated the engine
The carriage is our feelings- they don't make the train go, they are just there.
Whether you are happy or sad, it doesn't make any difference to your relationship with God... you are saved because you believe in Jesus.
Vision
Has your group decided what you are going to do for your outreach event? Make sure you decide tonight and discuss who you should invite. Pray for them by name.
Session 2: February 22
Tonight's Theme: Sin and salvation
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1. What is one significant thing that has happened to you this week?
2. How and when did you become a Christian?
3. What do you understand by the word "sin"? Let people share their answers, and then point out that the word is an old English archery term-- it originally meant to miss the target. What extra meaning does this give to the word?
4. Read Romans 3:23 and 6:23. Who has sinned? What is the result? What do you think it means when it says “Sin pays off with death?” What are the implications of this for us? For our unsaved friends?
5. Read Romans 3:24. What is God’s promise to us here?
6. Pray for one another. If anyone is unsure of their salvation, lead them in a prayer of commitment, if appropriate,
Vision
One of the important tasks of our Share Group is to invite people to join us and to follow Jesus. We have seen tonight that everyone who is away from Christ is heading towards “death”, another word for Hell. This awful destiny includes our friends who do not know Jesus.
In a few weeks we will be having a special night to invite our friends along. This night will be away from the church and will involve just this group. As a group talk about who you would like to invite to such an event, and what kind of event it might be: e.g. barbecue, party, river picnic, poetry reading, disco. It’s your event, your night so start planning now.
Note: This night will be on March 22
Session 1: February 7, 2001
Theme: Getting Started
Discussion:
Share briefly your answers to the following questions.
1.Where did you live between the ages of 7 and 12 and how many brothers and sisters did you have?
2.What kind of transportation did your family use?
3.Who was the person you felt closest to?
4.When did God become more than a word to you?
Prayer:
Pray for one another, mentioning special needs. If the group is bigger than about 5 people, divide into small groups of 3 or 4.
The Vision:
Cell Groups are meant to be an important part of our church life. We want to use these groups for two main purposes:
a) We want to build each other up and encourage one another to walk closer to God. This means that we have to be committed to each other and the group. Cell groups are more than Friday nights.... we should be contacting each other during the week and building a close-knit community. It also means that we need to have sufficient commitment to one another to make these meetings a high priority.
b) We want to reach out to our community and show them God's love. This also is a critical part of our commitment to one another. During the next few weeks we will think about how we can reach our friends and neighbours. Please think creatively about this and start praying for your unsaved friends.
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28 November 2003
Christ is King!
The Cross is the central factor of Jesus' life. He was born to die, so that we who are destined for death can know life. The gospel writers and Paul each in their own way describe the crucifixion in kingly terms, as if it is here that Jesus receives the right to be king.
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Have you ever been involved in or observed a ceremony which celebrated or inaugurated something really important?
Read Matthew 27:27-56. What sort of people were generally crucified? What does this say about the judgment people made about Jesus?
How many references are made in this chapter to Jesus being a King? Some scholars believe that the crucifixion is almost like a coronation ceremony. Do you agree that this is how Matthew has told the story?
What difference does it make to think about the cross as a place of glory?
What do you think is happening in vs. 45 and 51-53 with a series of unusual events? What do these events mean?
What does Jesus' death mean for you?
Vision
Next week we will again be having an outreach night. What will your group be doing on that night?
21 November 2003
Christ is King!
Can we imagine what it must have been like for the King of Glory to be born in the squalor of a cattle shed? Why would He do it? What are the truths behind the myths of Christmas?
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Have you ever spent time with someone who was extremely poor financially? What was this experience like?
Read Luke 2:1-8. try to describe in as much detail as you can, what it was like in that stable. What were the sounds, the sights, the smells?
What feelings would Mary and Joseph had during the birth?
Geoff Bullock makes the point that everyone in Bethlehem was a relative of Joseph, yet none made any attempt to show kindness to his pregnant wife. What does this tell us about Jesus' birth?
Compare the humble situation of Jesus' birth with the grand description of Him given in last week's study in Colossians 1:15-20.
What do you think God was thinking when He chose a stable rather than a palace, a shed instead of a hospital?
What new insight have you gained about the reality of Christmas?
Vision
We are approaching Christmas, again. This is a time of year when people are more open to thinking about Jesus. How can our group help people draw closer to Him?
14 November 2003
Christ is King!
In the wind-up to the frantic activity which the end of the year brings in this part of the world, it's wise to spend some time contemplating the real reason for the season. So for the next few weeks we will be thinking about the topic of “Christ Is King.” The hope is that we will be challenged to make Him King of our own lives.
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If you could be ruler of the world for a day, what changes would you make?
Read Colossians 1:15-23. What feelings come to you as you read this?
What do you think it means when it says “Christ is exactly like God” (v.15)?
If everything was created by Jesus, what does this say about the world we live in?
Jesus is the head of the church (v. 18). As a christian you are a part of the church. What does this mean for your life? In what ways does your life need to change for Jesus to be King?
How can you “stay deeply rooted and firm in your faith” (v.23). What do you need to do to become more firm?
Spend some time praising Jesus for His wonderful nature and praying for one another.
Vision
We are approaching Christmas, again. This is a time of year when people are more open to thinking about Jesus. How can our group help people draw closer to Him?
Share Groups October 31, 2003
Fruit of the Holy Spirit 3
Last week we discussed three of the nine qualities referred to as the Fruit of the Spirit- these three relate to our temperament or the way we handle our feelings. These qualities are joy, peace and patience.
This week we look at the final group of three which relate to integrity- goodness, faithfulness and self-control.
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How has God been helping you grow more like Him over the last few weeks? Have there been times when your “fruitiness” has been put to the test?
Read Galatians 5:22-23. Our last group of fruit relates to integrity. How would you define integrity in your own words?
The term translated “goodness” refers to inner moral worthiness, both a passion for truth and a valuing of other people. Can you think of some incidents in Jesus' life which demonstrate goodness?
Faithfulness is a commitment to other people regardless of circumstances. Who is someone you would consider yourself as being faithful to? What are some things that make it hard to be faithful to another person?
In what areas do you find it easy to exercise self-control? What areas can be difficult?
Over the last few months we have been talking in some detail about the ministry of the Holy Spirit. What has been one thing you have learned from these discussions?
Pray for one another to grow in these fruit of the Spirit.
Vision
Next week is an outreach night. What is your group going to do, and who are you going to invite?
October 24, 2003
Fruit of the Holy Spirit 3
Last week we three of the nine qualities referred to as the Fruit of the Spirit- these three may be described as relational because they help us relate to other people- love, kindness and gentleness.
This week we look at the next group of three which relate to our temperament or the way we handle our feelings. These qualities are joy, peace and patience.
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Last time we prayed about our relationships and for more love, kindness and gentleness in our lives. How has God answered that prayer for you?
Read Galatians 5:22,23. Tonight we are looking at the three qualities which relate to our feelings- joy, peace and patience.
What is the difference between joy and happiness? What is it about following Jesus which brings us joy?
Can you describe a time in your life when you were aware of joy in your heart?
Read John 14:25-27. What is your definition of peace? Where does peace come from?
In what situations do you find yourself needing the peace of God?
Would you describe yourself as a patient person? Why?
What really tests your patience?
Pray for one another to grow in these fruit of the Spirit.
Vision
Spend some time praying for non-christians to be saved.
October 17, 2003
Fruit of The Holy Spirit 2
In the last group time we looked at what the bible refers to as the Fruit of the Spirit. These qualities are character traits which the Holy Spirit grows in us in order to make us more like Jesus. Over the next few weeks we are going to make a more detailed look at these qualities and ask the Holy Spirit to grow these fruit in us.
The fruit of the Spirit can be divided into 3 groups of three... the relational qualities (love, kindness, gentleness), temperament qualities (joy, peace, patience) and integrity qualities (goodness, faithfulness, self-control).
This week we are looking at the first group- the relational qualities.
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What are some things you have learned about God since we last met?
Read Galatians 5:22,23. Tonight we are looking at three of the qualities which speak of how we relate to others.
How would you define the word love? Do you think the word is misused in our society? Why?
Read 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. From this description of love, how do you measure up in loving your neighbours and those around you?
What do you think is meant by the word “kindness”?
Some years ago a christian pastor invented the term “random acts of kindness” to describe a way of living God's grace in our depersonalised society. For example, he would pay the bridge toll for the car behind him, or give away drinks in the park to strangers on a hot day. How do you think these acts of kindness can open people up to God's love?
What is the difference between weakness and gentleness? Do you think that people often get them mixed up?
Of the three qualities we have talked about tonight which do you need God's help with? Pray for one another.
Vision
Our Share Groups do not exist for our own benefit alone, but to reach out to friends with God's love. Talk about how you might do that in the next few weeks.
Share Groups September 26, 2003
Fruit of The Holy Spirit
As we continue our study of the ministry of the Holy Spirit we now look at how the Spirit changes us to become more like Jesus. The qualities which relate to the character of God are referred to as the fruit of the Spirit from an analogy in Galatians 5:22. (Note the CEV does not use the word “fruit” in this verse, so you may need to read it in NIV). The gifts of the Spirit are given for us to share in Jesus' power; the fruit of the Spirit are given for us to share in His nature.
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What is your favourite fruit? What makes it so special for you?
Read Galatians 5:16-26. What sort of things are produced by our sinful nature? How would you describe these things?
What sort of things does the Holy Spirit produce in a believer? What's the difference between the two lists?
How do you think we can increase God's qualities and decrease the sinful qualities in our lives?
Looking back on your life, can you see how God has changed you?
What are some areas where God still needs to do some work to make you more like Jesus?
Vision
Continue to pray for people to become christians.
September 12, 2003
Ministry Gifts of The Holy Spirit
In the last two studies, we have looked at the Manifestation Gifts of 1 Corinthians 12 and the Motivational Gifts of Romans 12. We saw that any believer can and should expect to operate in any of the manifestations and that every person has at least one or two of the motivational gifts. Tonight we look at the final list of gifts, often referred to as the Ministry Gifts
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What was the most memorable Christmas you ever had?
Read Ephesians 4:7-15. Read verse 5 in a couple of different versions. What do you think this verse means?
The list of ministry gifts is in verse11. What is different about this list to the other lists we have looked at?
Do you think everyone has these gifts? Why?
What are each of these ministry gifts about? (i.e. What is the task of the person with each of these gifts?)
Who are the people in this church who have those gifts?
According to verse 12 -13, what are these gifts meant to achieve?
How will we know these gifts have finished their work?
Vision
Pray for those people who came to your group for the first time last week. How will you continue to share with these people?
September 5, 2003
Manifestations of The Holy Spirit
This week we look at the second listing of gifts in the New Testament, the Motivational Gifts. Whereas the manifestation gifts of 1 Cor. 12 are available to any christian at any time, the Motivational Gifts are “hard-wired” into our personality.
Word
Out of the following activities, which would you rather do, and why?
a. Construct a new play area at the church.
b. Watch somebody else construct the new play area
c. Design plans for a new play area at the church.
d. Read a book about how great heroes of the faith have built play areas
e. Write instructions about safe procedures for building play areas
f. Donate $1000 for children's equipment
g. Lead a cheer squad to encourage the play area construction team.
Read Romans 12:3-8. Why does God give people different gifts, rather than making them perfect at everything?
Look through the gifts listed in verses 6 to 8. Are there any you don't understand? (NB prophecy here is often called insight- it's the ability to look at the hearts and motives of people and to correct them when they are wrong)
Go around the members of the group and share briefly what you think their motivational gifts are.
Do you think that you use your motivational gifts effectively for the sake of the Body of Christ? What needs to change to allow you to do this?
Pray for one another and for a growth in gifts.
Vision
Next week is our Outreach Night. Please finalise your plans for that night and pray for those who will be coming.
August 29, 2003
Manifestations of The Holy Spirit
Over the next three weeks we will be looking at the three major listings of “gifts” of the Holy Spirit in the Bible. These are the manifestations of 1 Corinthians 12:7-11, the motivational gifts of Romans 12:6-8 and the ministry gifts of Ephesians 4:11. We could spend months on this topic, but we won't. This is rather meant as an introduction and an encouragement for people to set their hearts on seeking God's will for them.
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Can you think of a time when you were particularly aware of the power of God at work?
Read 1 Corinthians 12:1-11. What is Paul's main point in this passage?
The word “manifestation” means “the act of revealing.” What does it mean to say that the Holy Spirit reveals Himself in these ways?
List the nine manifestations mentioned here. What do these gifts do and how do they work?
Which of these manifestations have you personally experienced?
What is Paul saying in v.7?
Pray for one another to receive a greater measure of ability to be used by God through these manifestations.
Vision
Cell groups are about outreach. In two weeks' time we will be having another outreach night. Talk about what you will do on that evening, and plan something concrete, including who to invite.
August 22, 2003
Baptism In The Holy Spirit
This topic is a very important one in terms of people's understanding of where they stand with God. You will need to allow time to pray with those who have not yet been baptised in the Holy Spirit.
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When you have doubts about the reality of God in your life, what helps you to remember that He is really there?
Read Acts 2:1-21. What is the importance of this incident for the disciples? Why is it important for us?
This experience of the coming of the power of the Holy Spirit is often referred to as the “baptism in the Holy Spirit.” Why do you think it is called this? (Note for leaders: the phrase “baptism in the Holy Spirit does not occur in the Bible... although the phrase “baptise with the Holy Spirit” does. However the experience is thoroughly scriptural.
In this incident, the disciples speak in other languages for the first time. What is the importance of this? Do you have this experience? Mention that it is the giving of a prayer language that is the particular sign of the Baptism in the Holy Spirit.
Describe how Peter and the others were before Pentecost. Compare this with what they were like when they received the Holy Spirit. What does this say about he Baptism in the Holy Spirit?
The Baptism in the Holy Spirit is a change that takes place in us which allows us to become an effective channel for God's power. It is particularly important for helping people to become christians- see verses 40-41.
Offer prayer ministry for people to receive the Holy Spirit if people would like it.
Vision
Spend some time praying for people to turn to Jesus.
August 15, 2003
Holy Spirit. The Guide.
As we progress through our study of the Holy Spirit, it is important to always keep in mind that the Holy Spirit is God. Part of the amazing Good News of God is that every follower of Jesus has God dwelling inside them. Today we are looking at how the Holy Spirit guides us.
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Can you think of a time when you knew something or had an intuition about something without any obvious reason for knowing? Do you put this down to God or something else?
Read John 16:5-16. Here the Holy Spirit is referred to as “the Counsellor” (NIV) or sometimes “the Advocate.” Why do you think Jesus used these titles for the Holy Spirit?
In verses 10-11 Jesus talks about the Holy Spirit convicting people about sin, righteousness and judgment. How have you experienced this work of the Holy Spirit in your life?
How do you think the Holy Spirit guides us into truth (v. 12-13)?
Sometimes Christians are afraid of being led into spiritual deception. Why should we not be afraid of this?
This passage is about the Holy Spirit talking to us about various things. How can we learn to listen to the Holy Spirit better? What have you found helpful in this?
Vision
It is the Holy Spirit who ultimately convicts people about their need for Jesus (see John 16:8). We need to be praying that the Holy Spirit will bring our friends to the point of knowing that they need a Saviour.
August 1, 2003
Holy Spirit. Who is the Holy Spirit?
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What did you think of when you first heard the phrase Holy Spirit or Holy Ghost?
What does the Holy Spirit mean to you now?
Read: Matthew 3:13-4:11. What strikes you about the account of Jesus' baptism?
What do you think it means when it says the Spirit of God came down on Jesus like a dove?
Have you ever experienced the Spirit of God coming down on you?
What do you think this experience did for Jesus?
Why do you think the Holy Spirit led Jesus into the desert? (Note the original word means he threw Him into the desert).
Do you think the Holy Spirit leads us into uncomfortable/ dangerous places? Why?
Pray for one another to have a deeper relationship with the Holy Spirit.
Vision
The Holy Spirit is the one who leads people into the Kingdom of God. He also directs us to praying for others to find Jesus. Who is He leading you to pray for right now?
July 3, 2003
Who Is Jesus? The Resurrection
One last week of looking at ?Who Is Jesus? Definitely the final, last week I promise! This week a few thoughts about the meaning of the resurrection.
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1.Have you ever experienced or witnessed something that could be described as a miracle? What happened? How did you feel about it?
2.Read Matthew 28:1-10. Imagine you are one of the women approaching the tomb in the pre-dawn darkness. How would you feel? How would the earthquake and the appearance of the angel make you feel?
3.What were the women's reactions to seeing Jesus? Why?
4.What do you think is the importance of the resurrection for us?
5.How do people today react to the claim that Jesus is alive?
6.How can you help others to see that Jesus really is alive.
Vision
The next few weeks are school holidays, an excellent time for thinking about extra outreach activities. Maybe you could plan something tonight.
June 27, 2003
Who Is Jesus? Lord
Over the last several weeks we have been looking at the person of Jesus, his qualities and roles. Today we continue this series by thinking about what it means to say that Jesus is Lord.
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1.Have you ever met someone who carried great power or authority? How did you feel?
2.Read Revelation 5. Who is the Lamb on the throne?
3.What does it mean to say that Jesus is a King? What is He King of?
4.In verses 11-14, who is praising Jesus and why? What do you think this passage is trying to tell us?
5.How do you feel about the idea that Jesus is the ultimate ruler of the universe?
6.Christians sometimes say ?Jesus is Lord.? What exactly does this mean?
7.In your life is Jesus genuinely King or Lord always? Why?
8.Do you know of people who have taken Jesus' kingship seriously in their lives? What has this meant for them?
Vision
Who are the people you know who need to know that Jesus is the King? How can you share this with them?
June 20, 2003
Who Is Jesus? Redeemer (Part 2)
This week we continue looking at Jesus as our redeemer.
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1.What is something you have had to sacrifice in your life? (Might be a dream, ambition etc.) Why did you make that sacrifice? Was it worth it?
2.Read Hebrews 10:1-17. What are the sacrifices which are talked about here?
3.What is the problem with the Old Testament sacrifices? (v.2-4)
4.How is Jesus' sacrifice different?
5.Why is Jesus a ?once for all? sacrifice?
6.Do you think there is any sin which God cannot forgive? Why?
7.Spend some time in prayer thanking Jesus for His great sacrifice for you.
Vision
We all have friends who need to know Jesus and His great love. How can we as a group reach out to these people?
May 30, 2003
Who Is Jesus? Redeemer
This week we are looking at Jesus as our redeemer.
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1.Can you think of a time when you needed somebody's help but didn't know it?
2.Read Romans 3:9-31. What do you think of God's assessment of people in verses 10 to 18? Is this judgment still true or was it just back then?
3.How do you think most people would react to this passage?
4.How does God make us acceptable to Him?
5.Why did God send Jesus into the world? Do you think it would be fair to say that Jesus' only reason for living was to die?
6.How should we respond to this?
7.Why does God accept us?
8.Spend some time in prayer thanking Jesus for His great sacrifice for you.
Vision
Walking with Jesus means that we are prepared to make the same costly choices for ?sinners? that Jesus did for us. How can this group start to have that outward focus.
May 23, 2003
We've looked at Jesus as God and man. Let's take some time to think about Jesus as a person with authority.
Word
1.How do you feel when pulled over by the police? Why are such feelings generated in us?
2.Read Luke 7:1-10. Why did the man deserve help, according to the Jewish leaders?
3.The officer describes himself as a ?man under authority.? What are some areas of authority that you are under? What are some areas where you exercise authority over others?
4.What kind of authority does Jesus have, according to this story?
5.Can you think of other incidents in Jesus' life where he shows authority over other areas of creation?
6.As christians we share Jesus' authority. In what areas of your life do you need Jesus' authority at this time?
Vision
The John-Glenn concert last week was a great night. We need to keep on thinking always about reaching out to friends etc. Maybe members of the group had friends who came to the concert- how can we build on that? How can we plan to reach some friends over the next few weeks?
May 9, 2003
Who Is Jesus? Jesus is Man
Last week we looked at the start of John's Gospel which describes Jesus as ?The Word? and emphasises His divine nature. This week we look at Jesus' humanity.
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1.Share an incident where you felt totally dependent on another person. What was this experience like for you?
2.Read Matthew 1 (the whole chapter). Why do you think Matthew spent so much time naming Jesus' ancestors? Why is His family tree so important?
3.If you were God, what form would you choose to enter the world? Why did God choose to come as a baby?
4.What are the implications of the names ?Immanuel? (God is with us- v.23) and Jesus (a form of Joshua which means ?The Lord is our Saviour?)?
5.Jesus often called Himself ?Son of Man.? What do you think this name meant?
6.What does it mean to you to know that Jesus was a person just like us?
Vision
Next week we will be going to the John Glenn concert at the Town School.
It is really important that we always have a vision that looks outwards from the group. Spend some time thinking about people who might want to go to the concert, and who might like to come to the group. Pray for these people.
May 2, 2003
Who Is Jesus? Jesus is God
Christians are called to follow Jesus. That's what it means to be a christian. But who is Jesus? What sort of person is He? How can we know Him better? That's what we will be looking at over the next couple of months.
Word:
1.Apart from yourself, who is the person you know best in the whole world? Why do you know this person so well?
2.Do you think some people are easier to know than others? What makes the difference?
3.Read John 1:1-14. Why does John call Jesus ?the Word??
4.What does this passage tell us about Jesus?
5.What do you think he means when he says ?The Word became a human being??
6.How does this passage help you to know Jesus more?
Vision
Our groups are meant to be constantly looking for new members, especially people who do not know Jesus. Who are people you can invite to come to this group? How can we make it easier for them to come?
April 25, 2003
Pursuing God- Serving
Serving does not come easily in our culture where we are encouraged to be assertive, demand our rights and expect to be served by others. Jesus turns that cultural expectation on its head and tells us that the greatest is the one who serves the best.
Word
What is one memorable occasion where somebody showed you unexpected kindness? What was remarkable about it? How do you feel about this now?
Read Matthew 20:20-28. What did the mother of James and John ask of Jesus? Why did she ask this?
What did Jesus mean by asking if they could drink from his cup?
Jesus tells us that to be great we must become servants or slaves. What does this mean?
Who are the people or groups of people whom we should serve? What are some practical ways to do this?
Sometimes people talk about having the heart of a servant. What does this mean? Is it a good thing or a bad thing? How do you get the heart of a servant?
What difference is there between serving and being a servant?
What changes do you need to make in your attitudes or actions to make you more like Jesus at this point? Pray for one another.
Vision
The John-Glenn concert is only three weeks away. Pray for the people whom you will invite to come along.
April 11, 2003
Pursuing God- Giving
We live in a world obsessed with possessions. From Saddam Hussein's marble toilets and gold taps to the constant stream of ads urging us to buy products we didn't know we wanted, greed surrounds us and demands to be satisfied. God wants us to have a different set of values.
Word
As a child what was one toy that you desperately had to have? Why was it so important to you?
Read Matthew 19:16-30. What is it about our wealth that makes it hard to get to the kingdom of heaven?
Why did the rich young man leave Jesus sad?
What rewards does Jesus promise to those who give up everything for Him?
Many Christians follow the biblical standard of tithing, that is giving one tenth of their income to the church. Is this a good idea or a bad idea?
What are some things that might stop us giving generously to God's work, to the needy etc.?
What are the blessings that come from being generous?
Vision
As a group make firm plans tonight to have a meeting/ activity/ night out which will be inclusive for your friends. What will you do? Where will you go? Who will you invite? Pray as you plan!
March 28, 2003
Pursuing God- Waiting
As we think about our theme of pursuing God, we come to perhaps the hardest thing for many people in our society- the idea of waiting on God. The early Pentecostals had a custom they called “tarrying”- when a person wanted to receive the Baptism in the Holy Spirit, if nothing happened immediately and if the person was ready to receive, they would wait for as long as it took for God to do something. In our age of “instant” everything we need to learn again that God does not measure time in milliseconds,
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In what situations do you find it hardest to be patient or to wait?
What is the longest time you have ever had to wait for something?
Who are some people in the Bible who had to wait a long time for things God had promised? (Some examples here: Abraham & Sarah, David, Jacob, Moses)
Why do you think God made them wait?
Read Genesis 12:19. What did God promise to Abram? How old was Abram at this stage?
How old was Abram when his first son was born? (Gen. 21:5)? Why such a long wait? What was God doing in the 25 years between? How would you feel if, at close to the age of 100, you seemed no closer to seeing God fulfil His plans for your life?
Along the way Abraham tried to make the promise work out his own way, with disastrous results. Are there times when you are tempted to work things out your own way instead of waiting for God?
When God makes us wait there are usually good reasons. We may not like it but that's the way things are. Trees grow at various rates- some fast and others slow. Generally speaking the trees that will last longest and produce the hardest timber are those that grow more slowly. There is a principle there for our lives also.
Vision
As a group make firm plans tonight to have a meeting/ activity/ night out which will be inclusive for your friends. What will you do? Where will you go? Who will you invite? Pray as you plan!
March 21, 2003
This week we continue to pursue the theme of pursuing God- this time in the word. You might like to think about how you have experienced God in Scripture and be prepared to share some examples
Word
What is your favourite book that you have read. Why?
What part of the Bible do you like best? Why?
Read Psalm 119:97-104. List all the things that this short passage says about God's word.
Why is the bible so important to the process of chasing God?
Can you think of a time when God met you in a particularly striking way through reading the Bible?
What might be the consequences for a christian not to read the Bible?
How can this group help you to be faithful in reading the Bible regularly?
Vision
As a group make firm plans tonight to have a meeting/ activity/ night out which will be inclusive for your friends. What will you do? Where will you go? Who will you invite? Pray as you plan!
March 14, 2003
Word
What was the best compliment you ever received?
In what ways is worship like (or unlike) giving God a compliment?
Can you think of a time you were particularly aware of the presence of God in a worship time?
Read Revelation 4:1-11. Try and imagine what it is like in heaven around God's throne.
What words does John use to describe the worship in heaven?
Somebody once said that worship is an act in which we try to copy on earth what is happening in heaven. Do you agree? Why?
What do you think needs to happen in church to make worship more like the “real thing?”
What do you think you can do to make your worship experience more authentic?
Witness
After praying spend some time thinking about how you will reach out to the people you know with the gospel.
March 7, 2003
Word
Can you think of a time when you had to chase a person, a thing or a goal? What was it like? Did you catch it?
Why do you think we might need to pursue or chase after God?
One of the main ways we draw close to God is in prayer. How would you define prayer? Have there been times in your life when prayer has made God closer?
Read Psalm 55. In this psalm, David goes through a number of stages in his cry to God. What sorts of prayer is David doing in this psalm? Do you pray like this? Why?
How can we make prayer more of a conversation and less of a series of demands?
What are the most important factors in prayer in your experience?
Witness
We have been talking about prayer in our own lives. Now let's pray for some people that we know to come into God's Kingdom.
After praying spend some time thinking about how you will reach out to these people with the gospel.
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September 24th 2004
The Be-attitudes
This week we conclude our series on the Beatitudes with a review of what we've seen and some thoughts about how we may spur one another to be more like Jesus.
Word
Think back about how you used to be before you were a christian. What would your friends from back then say is the biggest change in your life since you were saved?
Read the Beatitudes through again- Matthew 5:1-12. Which one has encouraged you or “blessed” you the most? Why?
Which of these beatitudes is the most challenging to you right now?
In general, how would the world be a better place if people lived by these beatitudes? How would the church be better if christians lived by them? What sorts of things would change?
Do you think these things can be changed by better government, education, preaching or evangelism?
How can this group help you to live God's way?
Witness
Effective witnessing takes place in both words and deeds. Pray that God would give you the ability to live effectively for Him.
September 10th 2004
The Be-attitudes
We are continuing our series on the Beatitudes.
Word
Can you think of a time when you were persecuted, insulted or lost friends because you stood up for being a Christian?
Read Matthew 5:10-12. Why does Jesus say it's good to be persecuted?
What is promised to people who are persecuted?
What forms does persecution take in Australia today?
What would you say would be the main places in the world where people are really persecuted for their faith?
Is there something we can do to help people in other places?
Witness
Next Friday we will be going to COC for a concert with Trina & Stacey at 7 pm. It might be worth inviting your friends to come.
September 3rd 2004
The Be-attitudes
We are continuing our series on the Beatitudes.
Word
As a child, did you fight with your brothers and sisters? Was there a particularly memorable fight?
How do you handle conflicts and disagreements? Would you rather
(a) run away and hide (b) fight it out c) talk out the issues (d) out-talk the opposition.
Read Matthew 5:9. What does it mean to be a peace-maker?
What are some situations in real life where you have to work at being a peace-maker?
What are some practical ways of helping to make peace with other people, or helping others to make peace with one another? What are some useful tips?
Why are peace-makers to be called children of God? How does this differ from the Muslin view that children of God are fighters?
What are some situations where you need God's help to be a peace maker?
Witness
Standing in the gap for conflicting people is another form of outreach which may point others to Jesus, the Prince of Peace. As a group, think about people in our community who need to know the peace of God. Pray about how to witness to these people.
August 20th2004
The Be-attitudes
We are continuing our series on the Beatitudes.
Word
Can you think of a person who seems to be morally pure, totally “squeaky clean”?
Read Matthew 5:8. What does it mean to be pure in heart?
Read James 3:13-18. What sort of things does James say stop us from having a pure heart?
Why does Jesus say the pure in heart will see God?
Is it better to try to change from the outside in (obedience to outside laws) or from the inside out (a change of heart)?
What processes are involved in giving us a pure heart? How does God do this in us?
Witness
Next week is down as an outreach night. What will your group be doing?
August 13th 2004
The Be-attitudes
We are continuing our series on the Beatitudes.
Word
Can you think of a time when you did something wrong, but got let off without punishment? How did you feel?
Read Matthew 5:7. What does it mean to be merciful?
Do you get more annoyed by the little day to day things that happen or by the big things that happen less often? Is it easier to forgive the occasional little thing or the daily annoyances? Why?
When Jesus says “they will be shown mercy” what is he talking about?
Do you think our willingness to forgive others is a condition for god to forgive us? Why?
Who are the people who need your mercy now?
Witness
If we have received God's mercy we have a responsibility to show mercy to others around us. That means we have to live out as well as tell out the Good News that God forgives sinners.
August 6th 2004
The Be-attitudes
We are continuing our series on the Beatitudes.
Word
Can you think of a time when doing the right thing was costly for you? Why did you do it? How did you feel at the time?
Read Matthew 5:6. What do you think it means to “hunger and thirst for righteousness”?
Why does Jesus promise that they will be filled?
The word righteousness can have three different meanings:
a) be right with God.
b) to be holy
c) justice for everyone
How does God meet our hunger for each of these aspects of righteousness? Does He do it now, in heaven or on earth after Jesus returns? Is it realistic to seek God's righteousness in this life?
5. What are some practical ways you might show a hunger for righteousness in the next couple of weeks?
Witness
Witnessing is ultimately about seeking God's righteousness on behalf of another person-- we want them to be right with God. Who are the people for whom you “hunger and thirst” for this to happen in their life?
July 23rd 2004
The Be-attitudes
We are continuing our series on the Beatitudes.
Word
Just think for a moment of those attitudes which Jesus describes as “blessed”. Are your attitudes more like Jesus' or like the world's? How can we change our attitudes?
Read Matthew 5:5. What is confronting about this statement?
What does it mean to be “meek” or “humble”?
In real life, is it the humble people who win, or somebody else (on average)?
What is Jesus promising here? Is this a promise that “nice guys win in the end” or is Jesus looking forward to something different?
How does this beatitude help you in your walk with God?
Witness
Genuine evangelism is always done with an attitude of humility rather than self-righteousness. One definition of evangelism is that it is one beggar telling another beggar where to find bread. Does your witness carry that flavour of meekness?
July 16th 2004
The Be-attitudes
We are continuing our series on the Beatitudes. Last week we looked at the idea of being “poor in spirit”. This week we think about what it means to mourn.
Word
Can you think of a time when you lost someone close to you? What helped you through your grieving time?
Read Matthew 5:4. Who is Jesus talking about here? What are the people mourning over?
Who is it that comforts these people?
In your own life how have you found God's help in difficult times?
Read Matthew 9:14,15. (NB The NIV correctly translates v.15 “how can the guests of the bridegroom mourn...? while the CEV relates this to fasting which was the question asked by the Pharisees). For people who walk with Jesus, is it ever appropriate to mourn or should we always put on a happy face, regardless?
Think honestly about your group. Is this a place where those who mourn might find the Comforter?
Witness
All around us there are people who are mourning. Psychologists talk of an epidemic of depression. People in your life need to find Jesus, the one who will restore joy to those who mourn. Think seriously about the people you know who need to know Jesus, and see if ythere are opportunities to invite them to your group.
July 9th 2004
The Be-attitudes
Last time we had an overview of the Beatitudes, or Blessings, which Jesus gave at the commencement of the Sermon on the Mount. This week we start looking at these sayings in more depth.
Word
Can you think of a time when you had very little in the way of money? How did it feel? How did you get by?
Read Matthew 5:3. What do you think Jesus meant by being “poor in spirit”?
The Greek word for “poor” means “having absolutely nothing.” Why is someone who is “poor in spirit” in this sense called blessed?
Why is the kingdom of heaven promised to these people?
Can you think of any biblical people who might illustrate this?
In what ways can christians be tempted to become spiritually proud?
What are some simple methods, tools or reminders that we might be able to use to maintain this attitude of being “poor in spirit”?
Witness
Who are the people you know who might be “poor in spirit” but who don't know Jesus yet? How might you encourage them to become a part of your group?
June 25th 2004
The Be-attitudes
This week we commence a series of studies on the Beatitudes, a series of blessings which Jesus pronounced on people who normally seem cursed rather than blessed, at least in the value systems of the world.
In preparing for this study, I would encourage you to read right through Matthew chapters 5 to 8, slowly and prayerfully. Even though we will only be looking at Matthew 5:1-11, it's good to get the whole context of the passage and to ask God to show you areas of your life which Jesus might want to touch through this time. As leaders we need to be constantly growing in godliness.
Word
Can you think of a time when you were completely lost and couldn't find your way? (i.e. literally not spiritually!)
What do you know about the passage commonly called “The Sermon on the Mount”? What part of this teaching of Jesus do you find easy to accept?
What parts of the sermon do you find totally impractical?
Read Matthew 5:1-12. Over the next few months we are going to look at the Beatitudes in some detail. What strikes you about these qualities which Jesus calls “blessed”?
What areas do you need help to improve in?
Pray for one another to take on the true spirit of the Beatitudes.
Witness
Next week there will be an outreach night featuring the musical “Element” at the High School. Pray for wisdom about who to bring.
June 18th 2004
The Father's Heart
In this series we have looked at the roles of fathers, at our earthly fathers and our Heavenly Father. We now introduce a topic that some might find difficult, the idea of spiritual fathers.
Word
What would be the best time you ever had with your family? What made it special?
Churches often refer to themselves as “family”. What does this mean?
Read 1 Corinthians 4:14-21. What does v. 15 mean by “you have many teachers (or guardians) but do not have many fathers”?
Who are the fathers in the church?
In what way did Paul become a father to the church in Corinth?
What is it that natural fathers do for their children? How is this a good analogy for pastors and apostles in the church?
At the heart of fathering is the idea of hearts united in love. A father loves his children and the children love their father. How is this different to the normal understanding about roles of ministry in the church?
How does this teaching line up with Matthew 23:8-12 where Jesus specifically tells us to call no man “Father”? Is this a contradiction or is Jesus really saying something very different?
Witness
Remember to pray regularly for people to come to know Jesus. Who are people who you could invite to be a part of your group?
June 4th 2004
The Father's Heart
We are resuming our study on “The Father's Heart.” Over the last couple of studies we have seen that God's nature is that of a loving, nurturing Father who wants the best for His children.
Today we look at the role of our natural fathers in our growth and development.
Word
When you were younger, did you have someone in your life whom you really looked up to? What made the person special in your eyes?
From memory, what is the fifth commandment? (See Exodus 20:12 to refresh memories.) What does it mean to honour your father and mother?
Why does God place a high value on honouring our parents?
What is promised if we obey this commandment?
Read Ephesians 6:1-4. As christians, are we still expected to obey this commandment? Why or why not?
What do you think is meant by Ephesians 6:4? In what ways can fathers exasperate their children?
The NIV version of 6:1 says “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.” Is this hinting at something additional to earthly parents, do you think? Who might be your “parents in the Lord”?
Witness
Remember to pray regularly for people to come to know Jesus. Who are people who you could invite to be a part of your group?
May 7th 2004
The Father's Heart
As we continue to look at the issue of fatherhood and its outworkings in the church and our life, this week we zoom in on our heavenly Father.
Word
In your childhood, what is one of the happiest memories you have of interaction with your father? What made it special?
Read Matthew 6:5-15. Jesus was the first person to refer to God as “Father” (or perhaps more accurately “Dad”, the real meaning of the Aramaic word Abba). What are the implications of calling God our Father?
Why is God “Father” and not “Mother”? What are the differences in the relationships?
Calling God Father changes the way we think about prayer- it's about relationship not about religious ritual. What does this Scripture passage draw out about the nature of praying to our Father?
In what ways does this teaching affect the way you think about your relationship with God?
Witness
How is your group going in reaching the lost? Make a list of people your group can bless through daily prayer and covenant to pray daily for them.
April 23rd 2004
The Father's Heart
Over the last year or so, the people from Rockhampton have been challenging us to rethink our attitudes towards relationships in the church. At the heart of their understanding of the apostolic ministry is the concept of fathering and sonship. We are going to look at this idea in some depth over the next few weeks.
Word
When you were 11 years old, what was your favourite part of your house?
At the same age, how would you describe your relationship with your father?
Read Luke 15:11-31. This story is often called “The Prodigal Son” but is better called “The Loving Father.” Because it is so familiar, it might help to read it in a different translation, if you have one. Read the story slowly.
Which character in this story do you most identify with? Why?
The younger son is described in the most shocking, abhorrent way imaginable in that society. Why is his behaviour so bad?
Do you think that the description of the father is realistic?
Which of the two sons is a “better” son to the father?
We live in a very different society to the one in Jesus' time. What expectations are there on sons and daughters towards their parents? Why do we find it hard to live up to these expectations?
The story is really about our relationship with our heavenly Father. In what ways does your relationship with your natural father colour your relationship with your heavenly Father?
Witness
How is your group going in reaching the lost? Make a list of people your group can bless through daily prayer and covenant to pray daily for them.
April 2nd 2004
The Cross
Introduction
Today we finish our series on the cross with the most unpopular part- our own cross.
Word
1.Have you had a “brush with death”? How did it feel? How do you feel now when you recall this incident?
2.Read Matthew 10:37-39; Matthew 16:21-25; Luke 14:27-30.
3.What do you make of the fact that it appears that Jesus said at least three times that we have to take up our cross to follow him?
4.What does it mean to do this?
5.How do you think we can die to ourselves?
6.What would someone look like who actually put this principle into practice?
7.What are some things you need to die to in order to follow Jesus?
Witness
How does the idea of dying to yourself fit into the process of evangelism?
March 26th 2004
The Cross
Introduction
The last few weeks we have been thinking about the meaning of the cross of Jesus for us. Today we look at the Cross as both problem and solution.
Word
1.What sort of puzzles do you find most enjoyable? Which are most frustrating?
2.Read 1 Corinthians 1:18-31. In what ways is the message of the cross foolishness?
3.Why do you think most people don't want to hear about the message of salvation?
4.In v. 22 Paul says that Jews look for signs and Greeks look for wisdom. What do you think he might have said to 21st Century Aussies? What would the cross represent to them?
5.How does God use the foolish things to confound the wise, the weak things to shame the strong? Can you think of examples in your own life?
6.Think of your close friends. How do they react to the message of salvation through the cross? What needs to change in their thinking.
Witness
Spend some time praying for a greater revelation in your heart about the love of God for all people. Then pray for the people you know who haven't yet decided to follow Jesus.
March 12th 2004
The Cross
Introduction
The last few weeks we have been thinking about the meaning of the cross of Jesus for us. Today we look at the Cross as being like a bridge which draws us back to God.
Word
1.What is the closest you have come to death? How did you feel?
2.Read 2 Corinthians 5:11-21. What does Paul mean when he says “one died for all and therefore all died.”? In what ways did Jesus die for everyone?
3.What should be the result of realising that Jesus dies for you?
4.What does it mean to be “in Christ” (v. 17)? In what ways are you a “new creation”?
5.In vs 18-20 Paul talks about God reconciling the world to Himself. What does reconciliation mean? What is Paul trying to tell us here?
6.In what ways does the cross represent a coming together of God and people?
Witness
Spend some time praying for a greater revelation in your heart about the love of God for all people. Then pray for the people you know who haven't yet decided to follow Jesus.
February 27th 2004
The Cross (Part 2)
Introduction
Last week we focussed on the physical and historical reality of Jesus' death on the cross. This week we look at the spiritual reality of the cross and what it means for us.
Word
What was the most spectacular or exciting public event- parade, demonstration, street-theatre- that you ever saw?
What is something from last week's cell group which stuck with you during the week?
Read Colossians 2:9-15. Express verses 9 and 10 in your own words. What are the implications of “the fullness of the Deity” dying on the Cross?
What does it mean when it says that when you were baptised you were buried with Christ? (v.12). Do you think that was your experience when you were baptised?
When Jesus was nailed to the cross the old Law was nailed there with Him. What does this mean for those who trust in the Cross?
In v.15 Paul uses the language of a military victory parade in which the defeated enemies were paraded down the streets of Rome to be mocked by the conquerors. Who has Jesus defeated on the cross, according to this verse?
How did God take such a seemingly disastrous event and turn it into a great victory? Spend some time praising God for the cross of Jesus.
Another way of approaching this topic is to read the passage, explain the meaning of v.15 and then get the group to draw, paint or whatever a depiction of the cross as a victory procession. This could be an individual or whole group activity.
Witness
Spend some time praying for a greater revelation in your heart about the love of God for all people. Then pray for the people you know who haven't yet decided to follow Jesus.
February 20th 2004
The Cross
Introduction
At the heart of everything Christians believe and do is the brutal slaying of God. Mel Gibson, at the end of his move “The Passion of the Christ” says, “Approximately 250,000 Jews were crucified during the rule of the Romans- but only 1 of them came back to life.”
While crucifixion was an extremely cruel punishment, it is the person who was crucified that makes Jesus' death extraordinary. In the time of Jesus' suffering all of the hatred of humanity towards God was pounded into one body.
For the Word section you may choose to watch the crucifixion scene from the “Jesus” video.
Word
What is the most physically painful event you have ever experienced? Were there things about the experience that helped you cope or things which made it even worse?
Have you ever felt abandoned by God? What made you feel that way? Did He really abandon you?
Read Mark 15. What stands out to you about the sufferings of Jesus?
In the account of Jesus' death various groups of people are described as rejecting or insulting Jesus in some way. List these groups and add any others you can think of from the other gospels. Are there any groups of people that stood firm with Jesus. What does this rejection say to you?
Why did Jesus call out “My God, my God why have you forsaken me?”
What was there about Jesus' death that impressed the centurion to make him confess that Jesus really was the Son of God? (v. 39)
What does all this tell you about God's love for you?
Witness
Spend some time praying for a greater revelation in your heart about the love of God for all people. Then pray for the people you know who haven't yet decided to follow Jesus.